23 February 2009

Bluntly

Love means letting someone fly free, no strings no attachments, no constraints..

Today I gave SOH his freedom as per his desires, not that anyone could restrain him when he wants to go.

I wish him a happy life back down in his beloved Cornwall and hope that he finds what he is looking for.

We had a happy 12 months together, achieved a lot, and experienced a whole lot more. He taught me how to laugh and how to have fun.

Thank you SOH, you still mean a lot to me and I am sad you are no longer a part of my life.

I won't be bringing this up again, what is done is done, the paths opened and the future is before me wherever it shall be - but I am sure you won't mind me taking a break from blogging to deal with the processes involved.

17 comments:

Elaine said...

Oh, Sage, this must leave a big gap in your life.

{{{{hugs}}}}

dickiebo said...

There's just no pleasing everybody, is there? Chin up, gal. (Though I have to admit to feeling a bit depressed by this, so Lord knows how you must feel!)

Annette said...

Oh sage,
[hugs] from me too.
xxx

Hogday said...

Happiness is everything - yours especially. Accept no BS.

sally-ann said...

What can I say? I'm so sorry. Big hug from us and a lick and a woof from Hamish x

Dark Side said...

Aw Sage, I can not believe this and you take as long as you need, in the meantime I will be thinking about you (((hugs))) xx

lindsayslife said...

Sending some *virtual* {{{hugs}}} your way, Sage.

xx

Kathy G said...

Sometimes life stinks!

It will get better...

Hadriana's Treasures said...

Sorry, Sage, to hear about this. You are very brave to even blog about it. But as Sting says "If you love someone, set them free..." It takes a lot of guts to do it. You never know he may come back! Hxx

The W.O.W. factor said...

.....I'm stunned...Oh SAge! I know of no words that can ease the life you are going through right now.
Know that I'm sending you {{{{{{HUGE}}}}} {{{{{HUGS}}}}}
My Dearest friend, I'm here...
Barb

Nicey said...

(((((Sage)))))

Hun I didn't realise it must be awfull but it does sound like that youve found some inner strength, it also sounds like you have found yourself during your time with him....
I will be thinking what your going through, take care hun
Laters

Nicey
x

~An9eL~ said...

I know you've already received a lot of those, but here's another e-hug for you.

May time heal. Take care.

Janet said...

Oh, honey, I'm so so sorry. I wish I'd gotten here sooner. Sending much love and good thoughts. Take all the time you need.

Leanne said...

oh Sage, I am so sorry. You may have guessed from emotional posts on my blog from time to time, i too was left last year. it sucks, it hurts like crazy, but you do heal, and I hope your healing is gentle on you.
with empathy,
Leanne x

Love Letters to the Middle East said...

I've been there before- oh have I been there, where you are!

If you need anything, you've got my email.
And yes, happiness is something you undoubtedly are entitled to.

AnneDroid said...

I'm behind in my blog-reading and have only just read this post. I'm so very sorry about this, Sage. Praying for you. Sincerely.

gemmak said...

Apologies for getting to this so late in the day! I am so sorry this has happened, life really sucks sometimes but we gals are tough when we need to be, there will be ups and downs of course but there is always light and happier times at the end of any tunnel.

Hang in there. *hugs*